How many email do u send and recieve a day.

Our clients is mainly focus on computer working everoment. so Now sales prefer use email to communicate a lot.
For James
receive about 40- 50 emails a day
and send a bout 70 a day.

Say hi to the gorgeous young man

Matt Damon, Heath Ledger
The Patriot and The Four Feathers, Ocean's Eleven Good Will Hunting The Bourne Identity
Talented? Yes they are, not only in their performance profession but also in their daily lives.
Generous and life-loving! Unpretending and natural and genuine, easy-going and warmhearted and cool with passion.
They are clever, but not showy, they behave in way that doesn't make others feel inferior.
But they are powerful as well. Kind tiger!

Say hello to them! Well done friends.

People's life style

People should discipline themselves, not in a state of do what you like to do, spend more time in trying to have a successful career.
I like to know friends, have some ,meaningful communication and being near to each other and care for each other. I don't have time or intend to do this often, it is expensive process and not cheap.

Don't be nonsense

Don't be nonsense

If some thing wrong in your group work, don't try to clear yourself immediately. Everyone is clear about where the problem is. As a member of group you should openly talk about the mistake and find the best way to amend it and avoid same mistake happens again. If it is your fault, say it is my fault and I will….
Take the responsibility. Try to do a wonderful work together with other members.
A.C always be open and try to find a way to fix the problem, is not dead against someone.

What do u think the difference between Chinese from Taiwan and Chinese from Mainland

From D with Taiwan husband:
Chinese from Taiwan are:
More Modern, open minded
Proud of themselves, never complain something about them
Some Chinese mainland girls are so flirt to west style and forget their identity ( Forget the root that West respect them)
They will get back as soon as possible, not try to stay here.

知者自知，仁者自爱

What a wonderful sentence about life attitude.

First you should know what you are doing and your own capability well.
Then you will not be confuse about what you should do in certain period and situation. Concentration on the important thing that you need do, not follow others or influenced by others. Have your own style and characters.
Secondly you should take good care of yourself, and be happy with your life and yourself.
Life has lows and highs for everyone, you should not only see others' shinning part, but their hard working and abundant time investment behind it. Being enterprise and confidence your good future and optimistic all the time. Take good care of your physical, appearance and mental condition well. That is my real experience from Oct 2006 to Feb 2007. Sent CV to 2 positions everyday, and being refused by Bar, hairdresser, hotel, restaurant, supermarket, etc. At that time I had some very bad day at beginning, but later I realized that a new day will begin, finally I started to cycling and thinking what I was doing and found myself again to believe that I will get good chance, so I need take good care of my appearance and health to prepare for that. As the old saying: no need worry no firewood to use if you keep the green mountain! It turned out to be right, I got my spring started at Feb 2007!

Good topic for Book

Give me a hug!
Ring on the finger

Zhong Yong(Being neutral and average)

That is about well balanced
The story of old jar in temple, water is in full and low lever, it falls down, it only stand there when water filled in the middle.
The tree in the market can survive as its material isn't good.
The duck survive as he can buck. People should be average
Example of being zhongyong:
Confident—over confident
Nice-over nice to bad person
Quiet-over silence, need communication
Dressing –over dressing, not human
Sweat relationship with friends- over near to each other, distance makes it beauty.
Warmhearted—not necessary to everyone, they will think you need something from them
Hardworking- over, lost meaning of life
Easy life—over, is lazy

Know yourself

知者使人知己，仁者使人爱己
知者自知，仁者自爱
知者知人，仁者爱人

When you know what you are doing well, then you can focus on it, calm down, ignore the unimportant thing. Ignore other people's nonsense thing. For other unhappy behaviour to you, sometime Silence is gold and stong!

Yesterday had a hard group meeting.
This morning R R talked happily in the morning. Even my holiday no feedback, although get emails about some data from R.
But after 5:20 this afternoon, Rgave me magazine twice and first time let me deliver to R after I finish it. Second time I said I will deliver to R, he said: forget R.
Well, hehe. What a day for me. Silence and Think what you are doing.

Friendship of man with virtue is plain as water

That is Chinese culture show well here

Long lasting, always supportive and respect other's privacy, just work or share good time together.
No partner, marriage, salary, even work inquire.

The friendship between men of virtue is light like water, yet affectionate; the friendship between men without virtue is sweet like wine, yet easily broken.

The friendship between men of virtue is light like water, yet affectionate; the friendship between men without virtue is sweet like wine, yet easily broken.

That other is treat others with the attitude that you like being treat.

Humble person

Michael's life turning point is changing job from bank to magazine. As work in bank means a career at that time, it is decision costs courage, but if he did do it, possible being reduced as super when he was 40s. Also setting up his own company is a big decision, he thought he possible went into bankrupt very soon, which didn't happen.

03 October 2008

You have the responsibility to know the laws
Survival of the fittest, human being needs competition.
Some women just having children with different men, then the government help them looking after the children, treat them like queen with house and benefit. They even don't have the sense to tell the children what is right and what is wrong. ---They don't have disciplined life themselves.

13 September 2008

Everything follows the basic rule in the theory of evolution: survival of the fittest, from Charles Darwin
You should say: "I am Chinese from Beijing."

7 September 08

Once I interviewed two candidates for a position, I chosed one, the other came back and said: you made a mistake, What I achieved in sales are.... Then I hired both of them, it turned out to be a good decision as the latter one stay more longer the first one. 29-Aug 08

I maybe didn't shout out and lost my temper, but I wrote a complain letter calmly. Finally I got a 200£ check. I will write a thanks letter. -------------------23 Aug 2008

Youalways try to buy some biger clothes, I always try to buy some smaller one. Your side is 28, not 30 or 32.---some time in May 2008

I am good at saying and writing out what other people like to hear and read.

Good professional skill combine with ability to manage work on time will make you better. Boss likes someone who can organize work on time and have a sorted document table.

Complain letter: You got be to polite, no shout, quiet, calm down and work out the points, make them take it seriously, other wise they will get troubles. I can write something to make them tears, don't mention money, otherwise they will think you are asking for some money and let you get away.

30 JUNE 08

I keep on planning some projects, no matter how small it is, give phone call, shop something, send an email, tidy up clothes, or cleaning, or meet friends... it is a way to show positive life style and lively, no matter age.

Put aside your pronunciation book, talk with people, now your are in England, that is the best way to learn English speaking. Human being can copy others. 22 June 08

I enjoy to judge some by myslef. People told me B will ask monney from me, but as well as he didn't, I am fine.

As I said before, i am in my age of decading, you are in your stage of beginning, a lot of unsure will happen.

At beginning, I thought find one for the whole life. After 2 year with T, he found someone else. 15 years later with P, P told me he want to leave me for someone else, two weeks latter, he asked for a lunch together and asked back to me, feeling never came to the same.

I enjoy someone care of me, like my children. look after me, even in the future push my wheelchair. I enjoy walking together, I don;t want to meet any one else, I am always available to you here. 15 June 08 Father day

P is very good at maintain friendship: he will let the person feel he is the most important person to him, which means tell him everything recently happened, he must listen to his story.

Tim is someone who gives everyone little help, then make a lot of friends. 7 June 2008

It is good to maintain contacts with old friends( and start a pension as early as possible), although most of time it is me to make the initial, other wise they possible would never contact. ( especially mentioned that someone who started to work together since 1965, time tells the treasure thing, 24 years, 8 years) ------ May 2008

Final salary before retired £150K, later there are directors joined in the company, then it was a little bit awkward to negotiate salary every year. 24 May 2008

Labour surport Mislie also cp, BUT muslie against CP. they are paradox themself. People who read gaurdian look like labour.


(You don' t need financial surport) I am totally independent.




I think people should earn their monney by themselves. I worked very hard and did well in property.




I have monney now, i no need wait for it become cheap, don't know when you will die.




Christwich is high end of property market, a little influence from market price.









16-18 MAY 08









Q:Getting better now, better mood
A: sometime I am a little bit worried, what will happen if I am in serious bad situation.
30 March 08

Liang, you are wonderful!
You know what you want, that is very important.
29 March 2008

Sign: try some of his dessert
NO!!!(strong tone, not my intension, just no aware)
He begun to pretend to be scared, also P noticed this
He Said: that (behave) is fine, you are from the other side of world.
26 March 2008

He don't have pension, When I die I will leave enough monney to him. I have nephew, what they do for me, why they should just reasonable to get everything I have. 29 March 08

As you getting older, time past quicker. I was told this when I was young, I didn't believe it. 24,25 March

I think Chuchill and Thacher is the best two priminister in 20 centuries. 19 March 2008

After the discipline of army, Mark, Peter's nephew became an honest and responsible young man. Got a job and bought a house now. 16 March 08


Always put yourself in No.1(important position) ----6 March 08

One thing i like you is you like to inquire. I like it too.
Better to put wallet in your pocket, not bag.

University tend to be structured reading, I do it by myself.

R describle Brad in a little bit over way, he said his German is very good in speaking and reading, but i talked with him, his accent is bad.

Want to sell the house and live in an apartment, if i die, leave too much monney, i need spend them to enjoy life.

If you want to get rich, you need to start your own business and provide something everyone need.



if you live in a state house and relay on state pension, what kind of life it will be?


Keep the package of your stuff, then later when you sell it, the buyer will have the all the feeling of a new one.


Don't change job often, employer expect you work for the for a few years.


We wait for their shout.

Are you ok?

Where are you?

I turn on the light for you.

we change our dinner plan and

have some chest.

You will lost,(after dinner)

Is that Ok for I don't drive you to station.

To P and Ralf, "L will stay here tonight and also Thursday Friday and Saturday ".




27 Feb-1 Mar 08








My parents couldn't supply me to University
I have a relatives, who lies down on the bed, used a stick to knock the ground for what she need. Poor daughter could have her own life, couldn't married.
I have money and I can hire someone look after me. Peter can visit me. 04 Feb 08


With 2 big house( 4 floors, 6 bed rooms, the other is 3 floors), one two bed room flat. But still write down 3.5£ coffee that he spent in his PDA record.
Good management, every project, every day diary, sort it in different way in apple computer file. -----2 Feb

Inherited 5oo£ from grandmather(10,000£ now), 200£ for a car, 200£ to set up company.
I will buy a flat for P and sell the house then use that monney live in care house. Don't want to be a burden of others.
Meet old Kent and victoria friends, i meet of once a year, and every time talk the same thing, that is life. also to family , i alway make the iniatial, but are happy to talk with me.

You had bad breath this morning, i accasionaly have it, you use try my teeth cleaning machine.
... (taught me how to use it)Breath on your hand, then you can judge your breath good or bad.
Hope you don't mind it, I like to be good friend. 02 Feb 08


Received a email says there is a will for u to inherit some money. The first idea is there is something wrong. But finally it turned out it is true. His grandmother's brother immigrated to New zealand in 1957, his daughter and son both didn't get married and died lady after the gentleman. Then the lady in new Zealand must find out all members in the family tree and their birth and death certification to share the 2 millions $. What is interesting is he begins to know some cousins he don't know their existence. Not the 1.9% inherit.
Now all the money comes back to England.

Not until you ask his work, he didn't say he has his own company
Not until you ask how many people he employed, he didn't say 57
Not until you see the house, you don't know he bought a house by the river with 6 bed rooms and comfortable decoration.
With a wax jacket which never been washed in the last 15 or 20 years, a little bit dirty but not smelly and it is tradition to wear it forever with wash it.
Good at language, think Chinese grammer is simple, learn German and Greece by himself with book and travel to that Country.
When you talk with other in your own language, he was listening as well with shinning eyes.
I like learning languages because they are a good mental exercise and keep the brain young.
I learn something new every day, which not many people can say.

He is just not a show person, about his property and career and intelligence.

• You are not a person like to show off.
  No, the real rich will not show off, someone who gets many credit card in wallet isn't rich, as he rely on credit. I only have one.




















• You are s successful people
  I was successful. 22 Jan 2008

I have a brother, but we are not close to each other. Something happens to me, P and C will take care of me. Peter is part of my life. -25 Jan 08

Daily Horoscope

You are usually popular, but today others seem to like you even more as you spin yarns of possibilities. You often enjoy lighthearted interactions, but now you are likely more interested in relationships that challenge you intellectually. Instead of just chit-chatting, it's a good idea to question the purpose of every involvement while seeking deeper meaning in all that you do.
By Rick Levine

kid for Shopping

Different country, different custom, even in very common daily life.
It is a common work for children to buy soy sauce, slat or vinegar for his mum and alcohol for his father.
I did it often, friends did it as well. Even now my nephews still do it for their parents and grandparents.
But in this country, they can't buy it until they are over 18 years old.
You often see kids struggle show their lawful identity to buy beer, then the shop assistants refuse to sell that to them. The fact is they try to buy some alcohol and share it together and that possible make them drunk and do something very stupid.
It seems Chinese kids just go to shop buy it and take it back for their parents. They are not very keen on to drink beer or spirit. They possible smoke, but it is still free for them to buy it.

Neil Morrissey's favourite things about English countryside

1,Dog walking
I live in north london, which is close to london's only real corner of British countryside-Hampstead Heath. It's a magical place up there. Truly breathtaking. but it's not the kind of place you can go wandering around on your own as a man. if i was to lurk near those bushes the press would have a field day. due to the somewhat controversial behaviour that certain gentlemen get up to in them. However, if you are got a dog you can enjoy the countryside and nobody thinks you are a sinister.It's kind of silly that you need a dog to be able to walk in a large, open field on your own, but every man should have a dog anyway.

2,silence
I don't think i have ever had a good night's sleep since i have lived in london. there is always some kind of distraction. when i go and stay in the country i sleep for days. it is not just hte quiet, it is the quality of the air.

3, Fishing
I.ve been going fishing as long as i can rememeber. I used to sneak out as a kid with a crappy old rod, and it still really gets me going today.There are something hugely elaxsing about sitting by a river with your little packed lunch by your side, smoking your own weight cigarettes while you catch absolutely nothing at all.

4, Campling
I love all that sleeping under the stars. all i need is a pillow and some cigarerrtes and i am fine. I grew up in the country so i 'd know how to survive ray-mears-style if i ever got stranded in my tent in he lake district. I could kill and eat a rabbit if i had to. Obviously, I 'd much rather go to the supermarket and oack bugs in my picnic basket before heading off. but iif i had to do it to survive. I COULD

Today's table tennis match

Nigel is always know what his doing, he never forget the score and whose turn to serve. He said: you are not so useless to Ray, ;-)

The young kid begun to throw away racket and damn himself there at the edge of crying. This time he was playing with a lady who had professional training when she was young.
“Excuse me, you shouldn’t behave like that.”
Very soon!
“I must stop”, “I can’t play any more”
She aborted the game, but she also very caring and said” my dear to the young kid”
She let him feel comfortable, but she still stopes the game. That is a good lesson for the young kid without match etiquette, even his father watches and instructs him every time. Now his father is quiet.

The lady and her husband later played double with the kids. It was the kids to get whose first serve. The old man point the side that which hand the ball is in the referee’s hands, as the referee stand in their side. The kid really guessed that side and it was wrong. Actually he didn’t know either, just being humor.

Salary isn't big monney

Rely on your salary, that will not make you rich.
You need do your own business, except your work. How successful you are depends on what do you do after work.

Friendship and being professional in east and west

Even my former German colleague knows it, "In China, you need friends to do your work, but you can work well without friends" said he in 2006.
In European, even you have a good friend in a field, you ask for some information from him, he possible say: I can't tell you that, confident information". Then you must stop pushing him for that information. The important thing for him is being professional, he know if he tells you, not only he break the rule of company but also deliver a bad unprofessional impression to you, even you benefit from that.
But in China, if your friend refuses to help you, that means he isn't a good friend, possible it also means the end of friendship. Chinese enjoy being near to each other. Friendship is over profession, that is the heart of life. It does look a little unprofessional. But your friend will think you are a real friend, definitely will not think you are unprofessional.

Living tips

• Don't make your private thing public
  The more your colleagues know you the more dangerous when you compete with them. You just work together, that is more mature and civilized.
  
• Don't make your department issues public, your department director doesn't like it.
  It is not your job to public it, please don't talk it openly and loudly.
  
• Don't gossip behind someone that is shallow. Keep it inside you
  It is only show your nonsense and tiresome and your dark side of personality. Don't worry someone will not know it when you say something bad or good behind him. So better always say good or impersonal neutral opinions. It need time to share some opinions with others. Keep it inside of yourself will make you a reliable person, people will judge that.
  
  
• 真正的英雄不是永远没有卑下的情操，只是永远不被卑下的情操所屈服罢了。——罗曼·罗兰
• Everyone enjoy wonder views and excellent people's performace.
• It is not important what others think of you, it is important what do you think of yourself.

Sweden G

• Know exactly how important good appearance is, so take very good care of dressing.
• Know exactly what he is doing. behave very well: quiet, well behaved and concentrate on work.
• Open, honest, but not unnecessary open everything. Don't talk about his own privacy a lot, also not ask others private questions.
• That is a more civilized way of communicating with others, good relationship need time to develop, there is no good friendship from a fast food way. Actively take part in colleagues' drinks and games but don't make initial move to any one at office. That is really well balanced.

Light in english family home

Not like Chinese they don't use Neon(dian deng guan) light, they think it is too cold, although it is bright.
They use some lights with warm light.
standard light which you can move freely
ceiling light with a few bulbs
wall light as mainly decration,
all the light with paper, galss shade to make its light more soft and comfortable.

Just miss the train

It happens to everyone, and everyone holds a different attitude about it.
In the UK, most of the train service is very accurate, the trains are on time arriving at exactly the scheduled time. Most of people just arrive at platform 2 or 3 minutes in advance.
For the train service in my area, there are 4 trains to London every hour in busy time, other time 2 in an hour. Then it happens that when you rush onto the platform, the train doors is closing.
It is frustrated, but you must face it as your own fault, why you didn't plan your journey better. Some time it does out of control as the other service is delayed.
For me, I just say damn, then wait there quietly for the next me Most of people just react to it in themselves, no language and movement show it. But I do see some interesting people:

1, calm type
A father with two kids. The train is already on the platform, he first held the baby and carriage to the platform, and then rushed down to downstairs for the other kid. When he brought him up to the platform, the train is leaving.
His eyesight was so calm, it seemed he just told himself to wait for the next one. The two kids had no react at all.

2, Mad type
That happened last night. When I walked to the exit, a young lad rushed on the platform and the door was closing at that time. He pushed the button, but it closed. The train begun to leave, he held the window of the door with his palms, but it useless. He begun to curse, "Fuck"…
Then he sat down on the exit and begun to cry loudly.
I feel sorry for him.
3, clever type
This was happened on District line in Earl's court station months ago, but it gave me a strong impression about how to rush into a train.
At that time, the door before me was closing, suddenly two small hands held it and open it, a young Asian kid rushed in and then the kid who held the door flashed in. wow, they are about 12 years old, that kid do it wonderfully, he didn't push the button which is meaningless, he didn't push his body in the closing door, that could be hurt, he didn't put his feet in as well. He used his hands and forces it open for a little while. Everyone knows the train can't move with the door open and one is strong enough to hold the door open. Their entire move finished within 5 seconds.

4, awkward type
These are some people who rush into a closing door, but unfortunately they are clapped by the door. It is fine, as the door will open again or they moved in by another try, but it is still a little bit awkward.

Anyway, use the right method to rush into a train and control your behaviour is important, it is in public place.

Language makes you stronger

One sentence gets to the point will impress you to everyone forever.
That is un-doubtful, but what I am going to talk is something about language itself: beauty English and Chinese.
In English society, you can tell (judge) a lot about others as soon as they open their mouth: class, upbringing and education.
Educated people bother to speak in a very cultured way, the words they chose, the way they speak and the sound from their mouth, all show their education and respect to others. You definitely will be impressed by the beauty of their learned language. For work class, they don’t bother to speak in that way. The beauty of English shows on it speaking as well as its writing.

For Chinese, I personally don’t think our speaking language show as much as English speaking language. It does show the accent and then corresponding education background, but it seems that is all of it. Chinese writing, which is Chinese calligraphy is the soul of Chinese language. It shows the fantastic culture and beauty of Chinese. In the thousand years history, it turned up in different way and different styles and still in its dynamic development in modern time.
At beginning, Chinese people tried to picture their world by some simple sign. As the time goes, it developed into different style and ways. Currently, Chinese use the writing of Qin dynasty as a result of the first emperor of Qi united the whole China, but it still has two big division now: traditional Chinese and simple Chinese writing.