知者自知，仁者自爱

What a wonderful sentence about life attitude.

First you should know what you are doing and your own capability well.
Then you will not be confuse about what you should do in certain period and situation. Concentration on the important thing that you need do, not follow others or influenced by others. Have your own style and characters.
Secondly you should take good care of yourself, and be happy with your life and yourself.
Life has lows and highs for everyone, you should not only see others' shinning part, but their hard working and abundant time investment behind it. Being enterprise and confidence your good future and optimistic all the time. Take good care of your physical, appearance and mental condition well. That is my real experience from Oct 2006 to Feb 2007. Sent CV to 2 positions everyday, and being refused by Bar, hairdresser, hotel, restaurant, supermarket, etc. At that time I had some very bad day at beginning, but later I realized that a new day will begin, finally I started to cycling and thinking what I was doing and found myself again to believe that I will get good chance, so I need take good care of my appearance and health to prepare for that. As the old saying: no need worry no firewood to use if you keep the green mountain! It turned out to be right, I got my spring started at Feb 2007!